Last night was pretty fun. I've been friends with you for awhile but we don't see each other that much. Every so often one of us will out of the blue text each other and be like ayeee want to hang out? Then we drive around and just talk and talk and talk. Because we are buddies but we never see each other. We like a lot of the same stuff and we live pretty close so i mean if we really wanted to we could potentially hangout a lot. After hanging out for about two hours last night we decided we didn't want to go home yet, so we decided to just have a sleep over. Over the course of last night and this morning she was telling be about how her relationship was going and i realized how similar we were. She gets shy like me and doesn't know what to say half the time, and gets jealous and just yeah. But the difference is my boyfriend understands how I am and our relationship just works. We text all the time, that we can. We don't hangout with others of the opposite sex. We tell each other everything, and we talk on the phone at night. Basically we know what the other is doing all the time. We care about each other a lot and just always want to talk and it's like screw everyone else. But with her, she wants that kind of relationship because she had it but now shes telling me more and more about it, and it seems like it fading completely. Her boyfriend doesn't drive yet, but he lives pretty close. They go days without texting. When she told me that I was like holy crap. Even if you won't get to talk to your mate all day, there should always be a good morning and a goodnight text. That's just how it should be.. It shows that you care about them and how there day goes and how they sleep and just it's a good thing to do for a good relationship. Then she told me that when they do text they have nothing to talk about. She isn't the best texter, but he doesn't help the situation. She tries to start conversations and stuff but he just doesn't give it back. Both people need to try. She also shared with me how whenever they hangout he seems to only want sex. To me it seems like he's fading away, like he is caring less and less. I don't want her to get hurt because she's one of my good friends. I tried to give her some advice. Another thing that would make me suspicious of something is that he absolutely will not let her see his phone. Not even an option. He takes it away whenever she gets the chance to look at it at all. Even when she's just messing around, looking at the pictures and stuff. That's a little fishy to me. I told her to just straight up say she wants to like play with his phone or something. Like why would he care if he has nothing to hide? She said she really wants to look at it the next time they hangout. I hope she does, but i also hope she doesn't find anything. He seems like a good guy. I used to hangout with them all the time. But maybe he's not as cool as he seems you never know. I also suggested that next time they hangout and he wants to have sex like right away or whatever to possible just tell him she wants to just hangout and cuddle or something, because sometimes girls just need that. I think how he reacts will say a lot about how he feels about the relationship. I just hope she doesn't get hurt. She's a really cool person, a little shy but once she's comfortable she's a fun person. I really think we need to hangout more. I kind of just want to get her boyfriend problems off her mind because i can tell it's bothering her a bit. Last night was fun though. Besides the boyfriend conversations we also talked about a lot of stuff we just hit it off every time we hangout. If we would hangout more again we could become really good friends. My brother asks me all the time, is she the new bestie and i'm like there's potential. Today we were driving around in her car going to the bank and some stores and stuff. But then her car didn't start so i called my brother and like he saved the day and i feel like that made us that much closer. Like, memories in the making. She's not the only one I've been getting close to, I'm trying to make new friends but the rest are work buddies. But I've hit it off pretty good with a couple of them too and it's making me feel good about myself. I want to hangout with friends more. It just makes me feel cooler i guess haha. But I mean i think that's just because i see my brother who is like who i look up too and he has so much fun with his friends. I want to have fun like that, with my own friends. I mean i'll always have my best friend, my boyfriend. Which is more than enough to make me happy.
Boyfriend and Brother > everything and everyone else
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